Even this afternoon, as the minions of the nation's media capital tried to out-do each other with more and more speculative coverage of the victory parade, a reporter who has been on the radio here for nearly half a century insisted that the highlight of the day would be the "emotional moment" when Steinbrenner accepted his key to the city. A less-senior and far more skeptical colleague asked if this was actually going to happen. The veteran's answer: "It's right here in the program for the ceremony!"

This is, of course, the impression the Yankees continue to give: that all is not necessarily well with their venerable owner, but that he's still frequently involved. There was even a very sad effort just last Saturday by The New York Post to palm off a series of e-mailed answers from infamous mega-flak Howard Rubinstein as an "exclusive interview" with George Steinbrenner. To paraphrase Churchill, the answers contained every cliche except "prepare to meet thy maker," and "employees must wash hands."

I have seen The Boss, with whom I have had a surprisingly warm and even conspiratorial relationship since I was a teenager, only twice this year, and the information gleaned from each encounter was directly self-contradictory. In March, David Cone and I were leaving the press box at Steinbrenner Field in Tampa when the place was frozen by security - it was George on his way out and they cleared the route for him. He was in a wheelchair and looked just this side of robust - twinkly-eyed and neither gaunt nor puffy. Cone whispered that he just had to say hello, and hoped he'd get a hello back.

This is what I heard:

Cone: (mumbled greeting)

Steinbrenner: Of course I know it's you, David. Jesus! We could've used you pitching out there today. Who were those kids? Are any of them ready?

So much for Cone's fear (and mine - to this day I think of George less for the chaos of the '70s and '80s and more for the letter he wrote to ESPN management praising my work on the 1992 Expansion Draft, in which I roundly criticized how his team handled the non-protection of its younger prospects, or the day he spent twenty minutes recounting to Bill Clinton, of all people, virtually every encounter he and I had had since 1973, right down to the story of my mother getting hit by the Knoblauch ball and refusing to ever go back to Shea Stadium even though the Yanks were playing World Series games there).

But just weeks later, during another lockdown, I saw Steinbrenner carted through the bowels of the new ballpark in the Bronx and lifted - not helped, but moved by a guy at each end - into a wheelchair.

Over the last few years, as his health has gotten intermittent, the volume of even rumors and whispers around the Bronx about how he is has declined. When the Yankees traded for Jeff Weaver, Steinbrenner poked his head in to the press conference and asked me "What do you think? How clear-headed does he sound? Is he going to be able to handle this?" - prescient questions, as it proved. A year later I was told that everybody knew there were "awareness problems" but that to my source's knowledge, nobody in the Yankee organization had ever heard a diagnosis, a prognosis, or even a vaguely medical-sounding term. A year after that, when he recited our history to Clinton, his memory was so sharp as to include some stories that I had forgotten - but each time he tried to say my name, all he could come up with was "uhh... this young man." After the 2007 season, there is no question that, to some degree great or small, he was behind the nightmarish, take-it-or-leave-it dethroning of Joe Torre as manager.

There are fewer such reports these days, and not even that level of source information. There's a lot to be said against George Steinbrenner and lord knows I've said much of it. But something made me feel very sad today at that Yankee ceremony: contrary to what it said "right here on the program for the ceremony!," The Boss was indeed not there to accept the keys to the city.